Post abortion... what will it be like?

Post abortion... what will it be like?

Post abortion... what will it be like?


I actually had to have an abortion due to medical concerns. I was 4 weeks when I found out and they made me wait until I was 6 weeks which was terrible. It's a heartbreaking decision to make and the relief is instant but the guilt kills you. I'm not trying to condone you either way. To be honest...the pain is NOTHING compared to what people say. I had cramping for about a week at most..and nothing that was agonizing. I have had periods worse than that. To the comment, at 5-6 weeks, realistically it is NOT a clump of cells. Up until about 4 weeks it is. But that's another issue I won't get into. I'm not here to judge you, obviously since I had to make the same decision. If you would like more information please feel free to message me and I will give you my aim screenname so that we can chat. Otherwise, I hope I helped you to answer your question as honestly as possible. Take Care


I really wish you would reconsider this. You will feel more emotional pain than physical pain. I hope you can live with yourself. My friend had a surgical abortion and she said there is a lot of bleeding, I went with her to the clinic and all of the girls that were coming out looked like they had just been tortured, they couldn't walk right and their face looked traumatized.


I have had three babies die this past year. Two miscarriages and a baby die after three hours after birth. A child is a blessing from God. Do you really want to kill it? I hope and pray that you will change your mind. If you have an abortion, for the rest of your life you will be wondering what that child will have been. Please think about this before you kill your child. A miscarriage hurts a lot and I was in a lot of pain. I can only imagine an abortion will be the same or worse. Your pregnancy: 6 weeks See the big picture How your baby's growing: This week's major developments: The nose, mouth, and ears that you'll spend so much time kissing in eight months are beginning to take shape. If you could see into your uterus, you'd find an oversize head and dark spots where your baby's eyes and nostrils are starting to form. His emerging ears are marked by small depressions on the sides of the head, and his arms and legs by protruding buds. His heart is beating about 100 to 160 times a minute — almost twice as fast as yours — and blood is beginning to course through his body. His intestines are developing, and the bud of tissue that will give rise to his lungs has appeared. His pituitary gland is forming, as are the rest of his brain, muscles, and bones. Right now, your baby is a quarter of an inch long, about the size of a lentil bean.


Not really, You will bleed a while though, your Doctor will cover all the what not to do's after the procedure. Make sure you cover this with him so you won't get infections after. Don't be scared, he will give you drugs so you will only feel pressure, not pain..And there is no pain after. only emotional. And if you have made this decision then you are ready to deal with your choice. You have to do what you think is best for you and don't let other people beliefs get you down. Those are their beliefs, not yours. Good luck and do what you gata do.


Everyone answering here are being far more gentle with you than I want to be. I would like to say some things, but I will temper what I say. The Child that you are killing can feel pain, and the act of Abortion will be horribly painful for him/her. You are not removing a tumor, or a mass of cells, you are killing a Baby, there is no other Name for it, it is a Baby PERIOD ! The disgusting thing is the way you worry how you will feel, I would expect you to feel remorse, like any other Murderer. Abortion is the act of a self absorbed narcissist who is only interested in their own comfort, and convenience. Be a natural human mother, and have compassion on your Baby. Give him/her life. Then give him/her up for Adoption if you can't summon up the Maternal Instincts to Nurturer him/her. There are Thousands of Infertile Couples who would love your Baby.


Oh, sweetheart, please reconsider! I have had two abortions! You may not have physical pain that you will endure, but the emotional pain you feel from this will 'never, leave your heart! Coming out of the anesthesia the last time, I remember crying and praying to God to forgive me for what I have done! Surely you know of someone whoo woul-d welcome this child into their lhearts and their lives. I will pray that you reconsider this, before it is too late. No one tells you what it will be like after the damage is done. Well, I am here to tell you. Please don't make the same mistake and live a life of regret. please?


Please think this through before you do it - really really think it through. A child is a gift from God - regardless! I was told to terminate my pregnancy for several reasons - I made a choice not to - my son came out just fine. What a tragedy it would have been. If you are not ready and can not handle a child now - there ARE Certainly people out there that would adopt this child.


I'm glad you're making a choice that you feel is right for you, and do not allow conservative fundies guilt you into doing or not doing something. Most offices will give you anesthesia for the procedure, and pain pills afterwards. You should feel very little pain afterwards, and your nurses and doctor will advise you of warning signs you should be on the lookout for, in rare cases of complications. Bleeding and slight cramping is normal. Good luck <3


Think about how painful it would be for your baby! It will hurt your baby more than you! Change your mind, and lean towards adoption. Unless it's a medical reason you're doing this.



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